Men’s fertility awareness understudied

Across medical and social sciences, the reasons men choose to have children and their understanding of fertility awareness have been seriously understudied. Swedish researcher Maja Bodin wants to address the issue in her research paper, “A wonderful experience or a frightening commitment? An exploration of men’s reasons to (not) have children.”

Her findings were part of a wider study into fertility awareness which included an opportunity for men to talk about fertility with a midwife. It included two open-ended questions: why you would want to have children, and why would you not want to have children?

Some men had a vision about parenthood and family life and looked forward to the experience. They longed for children and thought it would be joyful and that having children is the meaning of life; they described children as cute, funny, nice. Others didn’t particularly like children and thought they were annoying or difficult to handle. They also felt they were not up for the task or did not see themselves as the “daddy type.”

“One of the most common reasons to want children was to pass something on to the next generation, either genes or social heritage, traditions and values — they wanted to see a small version of themselves,” Bodin said. “Others did not want to pass on their genes because they had some disease, or referred to overpopulation, climate change, and the future looks bleak. Some thought it would lead to personal development: that they would learn, and the experience would enrich their lives. Others had the opposite view that it would mean they could not do what they wanted.”

She added, “Most studies just assume that people want children, and if asked whether you do or do not, it’s just a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ or ‘maybe’ answer. They stop there, they do not ask why. There are studies showing that many people just go with the flow, especially men. They haven’t really thought so much about why they want children. But I am questioning whether this is true, I think that they just never got the question.”

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